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FairyGodMistrxx posted an update
1 year, 3 months agoQuestion for everyone…. Do you think that it should always be up to the Dom(me)/Top to create a scene or should it be a collaborative effort?#NoWrongAnswers #LetsDiscuss
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Madam_Loveleereplied 1 year, 3 months ago
that depends on the situation… (daddy/princess or master/servant) some subs don’t mind flowing with fantasy regularly.
personally collaborative play is essential … Dom/sub collaboration is 60/40 (plus perks ) for me ….-
FairyGodMistrxxreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
@Madam_Lovelee I like the 60/40 suggestion. Thats reasonable.
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KruelaDeChillreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
I prefer a collaborative. Play should be mutually enjoyable and satisfying. Can’t do that if one party never speaks on their desires and how play should go
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FairyGodMistrxxreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
I agree. It should be mostly collaborative, in my opinion. It gets boring otherwise.
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lisamoaninreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
Collaborative is a good way. It could be that a bottom/submissive prefers the leadership and creativity of the top/D type but as time goes on, I would think it only natural that the s type has ideas that they wanna bring to the table.
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RudyHakushoreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
Consistently no, but I do think part of the draw of the submissive/bottom is being in the person’s care and not having to worry about things like that as well.
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FairyGodMistrxxreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
@RudyHakusho I get it. I’ve noticed that some subs are active in the scenes and some just prefer taking directions only. Where would you say you fall between the two?
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RudyHakushoreplied 1 year, 3 months ago
A little of both but when I’m in bottom/sub mode I don’t really wanna make the decisions as long as they’re within already agreed upon stuff. Unless I have some new ideas I want to try.
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