i buy them at conventions.

At first Seeing all the bruises scared me. I knew i could take pain I just didn’t know how much. Slowly i learned that I could be eased into more pain. I love being flogged and spanked openhanded they most. After knocking some things off my hard limit list, I also found that i enjoy belts and riding crops.

This is a good question. I really don’t know why I like impact play. I get a thrill while giving and receiving.

Everyone’s body and pain threshold are different. Practice makes better. There is no perfect. Harm reduction comes with attentiveness to your partner for nonverbal tells, practice with implements, and care.