At this time, we have everything set to where someone cannot send you an inbox message unless you all are connected. Cultured Kink is currently discussing whether we should open up inboxing or keep it private. One option we’re considering is ensuring that users can be tagged in group, forums, your public timeline posts, or other areas of the site, where someone can ask permission to send friend requests.

Any feedback from site users is greatly appreciated for consideration. Feel free to reply to this discussion or send an email to info@culturedkink.com.