• FairyGodMistrxx posted an update

    3 years ago

    Question for everyone…. Do you think that it should always be up to the Dom(me)/Top to create a scene or should it be a collaborative effort?#NoWrongAnswers #LetsDiscuss

    9 Comments
    • that depends on the situation… (daddy/princess or master/servant) some subs don’t mind flowing with fantasy regularly.


      personally collaborative play is essential … Dom/sub collaboration is 60/40 (plus perks ) for me ….

    • I prefer a collaborative. Play should be mutually enjoyable and satisfying. Can’t do that if one party never speaks on their desires and how play should go

    • Collaborative is a good way. It could be that a bottom/submissive prefers the leadership and creativity of the top/D type but as time goes on, I would think it only natural that the s type has ideas that they wanna bring to the table.

    • Consistently no, but I do think part of the draw of the submissive/bottom is being in the person’s care and not having to worry about things like that as well.

      • @RudyHakusho I get it. I’ve noticed that some subs are active in the scenes and some just prefer taking directions only. Where would you say you fall between the two?

        • A little of both but when I’m in bottom/sub mode I don’t really wanna make the decisions as long as they’re within already agreed upon stuff. Unless I have some new ideas I want to try.